A Gentleman's Guide to Flirting

A Gentleman's Guide to Flirting

1. Look your best

A lot of guys don’t think about how they look before going on dates, even though women pay attention to the little details related to appearance. Make sure you are well-groomed. Second, make sure your clothes match, aren’t wrinkled, and look decent on you.


2. Use charm, not smarm

Some cheesy chat up lines can be funny, but be careful not to cross the line into the realms of the ridiculous. Be natural and be yourself, because a girl won’t be impressed by you reeling off a load of pre-rehearsed lines.


3. Be a gentleman and take your manners with you

A bit of chivalry always goes a long way to winning a girl’s heart. Opening doors for her, standing up so that she can sit or offering to carry her heavy bags for her are just a few of the ways that you can flirt, without even having to really try.


4. Use your most powerful flirting tool – your smile

Smiling is the most powerful flirting tool that you have. A pleasant, unforced smile will put her at her ease and, if she smiles back, then she’s sending you the right messages too.


5. Use sincere compliments

Of course, flirting tips for guys can’t be complete without mentioning compliments. Everyone loves to be complimented but those compliments must be genuine, and don’t get too personal too soon. Tell her how beautiful she looks or how great her clothes look, by all means, but leave comments on her hot figure until you know her a bit better.


6. Make her laugh, this is an instant icebreaker

For an instant icebreaker, there’s nothing better than making a girl smile and laugh. Tell her a story with a funny ending and it will put her at ease and make her feel comfortable. Show her that you don’t take yourself too seriously and are able to laugh at yourself and she will be more open with you.